Going back to school is a big decision, but going back while raising kids? That’s next-level. Whether you’re finishing a degree, starting one for the first time, or pursuing a career change, balancing parent life with college is no small task—especially when it comes to money.

The good news? With the right tools and strategies, you can build a plan that works for both your education and your family. From budgeting tips to financial aid options, here’s how to make college financially doable as a student and a parent.

Know Your Real Costs (and Plan for More)

College isn’t just about tuition. When you’re parenting at the same time, your budget needs to cover a wider range of costs, including:

  • Childcare

  • Transportation

  • Food for more than one

  • Healthcare

  • School supplies (for both you and your kids)

  • Lost wages if you reduce work hours

Start by listing both fixed expenses (like rent or daycare) and variable costs (like groceries and gas). Then factor in school-related expenses like textbooks, tech upgrades, and class fees.

Pro tip: Add a 10–15% buffer to your budget for surprise costs. Life with kids is rarely predictable.

Create a Budget That Works for Your Schedule

Your time is your most valuable resource. Build a budget that accounts for both money and time.

Here’s a simple framework to organize your finances as a student-parent:

Category What to Include
Income Job wages, spouse/partner income, child support, aid
Education Costs Tuition, books, fees, tech
Childcare Daycare, babysitting, after-school programs
Living Expenses Rent/mortgage, groceries, utilities, transportation
Savings/Debt Payments Emergency fund, student loans, credit cards
“Extras” Kids’ activities, school events, personal care

Look for ways to trim expenses temporarily—like pausing subscriptions or meal prepping—to stay on track while you’re in school.

Use Education-Specific Savings Tools

If you’ve had time to prepare financially, consider these savings tools designed to support your college goals:

529 Plans

While often used for kids’ college savings, 529 plans can also be used by adults for their own education. Contributions grow tax-free, and withdrawals for qualifying expenses (like tuition and books) aren’t taxed.

ESA (Education Savings Account)

Coverdell ESAs are another option, though they have lower annual contribution limits than 529s. These accounts can also be used for K–12 expenses if you’re managing multiple education levels in your household.

High-Yield Savings Accounts

If you’re saving in the short term, look for an online savings account with a higher interest rate to stash money for tuition, fees, or emergencies.

Tap Into Financial Aid—Yes, Even as a Parent

Being a parent doesn’t disqualify you from financial aid—in fact, it can open more doors.

Fill Out the FAFSA

The Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA) is your first step. It’s used to determine your eligibility for grants, loans, and work-study. If you have dependents and low-to-moderate income, you may qualify for:

  • Federal Pell Grants

  • State or institutional grants

  • Subsidized student loans

Your dependency status (as an independent student) and family size may increase the amount of aid you’re eligible for.

Apply for Scholarships for Parents

Many organizations offer scholarships specifically for parents returning to school. Look for awards targeted at:

  • Single parents

  • First-generation college students

  • Adult learners

  • Specific fields like nursing, education, or tech

Websites like Fastweb, Scholarships.com, and the scholarship sections of your school’s website are great places to start.

Consider Employer Tuition Assistance

Some companies offer tuition reimbursement or assistance programs. Check with your HR department—this benefit is more common than you might think, especially at large employers and healthcare systems.

Save on Childcare Costs

Childcare is often one of the biggest barriers for student-parents. Here are some ways to lighten the load:

  • Ask your school if they offer on-campus childcare or childcare subsidies

  • Look into Head Start or state-funded preschool programs for younger kids

  • Use Dependent Care FSA if offered through your job to pay for childcare with pre-tax dollars

  • Share childcare duties with other parent-students in your program

Some schools also have family housing or support groups that can offer informal babysitting help and community resources.

Go to School Part-Time, Full-Time, or Online—What’s Best?

The right schedule depends on your support system, finances, and time. Each path has pros and cons.

Schedule Type Pros Cons
Full-time Finish faster, access full aid options Heavier workload, less time for family
Part-time More flexible for work/parenting May limit financial aid eligibility
Online or Hybrid Learn on your schedule, no commute Requires discipline and strong time mgmt.

Online programs can be especially helpful for parents with young children or rotating work shifts.

Don’t Forget Health Insurance and Emergency Planning

When you’re juggling kids and classes, it’s important to be prepared for life’s curveballs.

  • Check if your school offers student health insurance that’s more affordable than your job’s plan

  • Build a small emergency fund for car repairs, medical bills, or last-minute childcare

  • Have a backup plan for who can help with the kids if you’re stuck in class or facing a family emergency

Even a few hundred dollars set aside can provide peace of mind during a tough semester.

Final Thought: It’s Possible—and Worth It

Going to college as a parent isn’t easy, but it’s absolutely doable. With the right financial plan, you can invest in your education while keeping your family’s needs front and center. You don’t have to be perfect—you just need to be prepared, persistent, and clear about your goals.

Your kids may not understand everything you’re doing now, but they’ll grow up watching your resilience, ambition, and drive. That’s an education in itself.

Sources

  • Federal Student Aid: FAFSA Guide for Independent Students

  • National Center for Education Statistics: Returning Adult Students

  • U.S. Department of Education: Financial Aid and Scholarships for Parents

  • Child Care Aware of America: Campus Childcare and Support Services

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